My Story

This is the story of my long distance relationship with my girlfriend who is 10 years older than me.

There will be many tips throughout the story so I really hope that you take your precious time to read through thoroughly as I can assure you it’s worth the time. You will gain valuable insights into developing a more successful and lovely relationship.

I have divided my story into 3 parts, namely (1)How I met her, (2)How we got together & (3)Our hard times. This is because I’m giving a detailed story that can provide tips for you along the way. So by dividing it into three parts, it’s also easier for you to absorb.


Let’s Get Started By Introducing Myself

Jerry's Personal HeadshotI’m 19 this year(2016) which means my girlfriend is 29 this year. I come from Taichung,Taiwan and currently stays in Singapore. Back in 2009 after finished my primary school, my parents brought my younger brother and me to Singapore for the next phase of schooling. Prior to 2009, my family already possessed the Singapore Permanent Resident(PR) identity while my citizenship is still Taiwanese. After completing my Secondary and High School Education, I’m now serving a 2-year national service here in Singapore (All PRs are to serve national service in Singapore – a very weird policy which I hate it.) And that’s a short introduction of my life so far. Let’s get into the exciting part – my relationship!


A Quick Summary For You

I’m giving you a brief summary here about my relationship if you are limited by time or are not interested in going into details with tips. If you are going to read the full story, then you can simply skip this part and go straight to the story.

I met my girlfriend at a SPA in a 5-star hotel in Taiwan. She was the lifeguard there and I went there with my parents for a vacation. It was 2nd December 2014. I didn’t approach her. Instead, she approached me and asked me for a photo with her when I was about to leave. Afterwards, she asked me for my LINE ID (chatting App). So we got connected from that day onward.

After that, we chatted everyday. I visited her once and she visited me once. We got together when she came to see me, which was the second time we meet up and it’s also the 10th day after we met. (To see details about how the magic happens, click the link below)

Our relationship goes on and our obstacles keep on coming. Eventually I had to return to Singapore for my studies while she works in Taiwan. Now is still the same. (For more difficulties we faced, also click the link below)


For my full story with tips, here are the 3 parts! Enjoy 🙂

  1. How I Met Her

  2. How We Got Together In Just 10 Days

  3. Our Hard Times


Your Instant Takeaway

I hope you enjoy reading my story, whether it is just the summary or the full story. There are a lot of takeaways for you throughout the story. If you have not clicked the links to the different blog posts to learn the tips and insights, I recommend you to do it right now. You will not regret. This is for those who have clicked through to read my full story.

Don’t forget, it’s your life.

Don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. ~Steve Jobs

Regardless of all the tips, the most important thing is to follow your own intuition. Feel it yourself from your heart.

Your relationship success is our mission. Feel free to contact me (via E-mail or comment below) for any questions or doubts you may have. I’m more than willing and I’ll do my best to help you.

All my best to your relationship success!

Email: talktous@longdistancementors.com




Founder of Long Distance Mentors




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